Tawana Akins

How to Make the World a Better Place

As student government president at Cope Center North, a school for teen moms in Miami, Tawana Akins ’15 marched herself to the principal’s office to discuss the nutritional value of the food that was being served to the students and their children. After getting the okay from the administration, Akins worked with the cafeteria manager to offer the students hot lunches instead of cold and larger portions. “Everyone understood the point that I was trying to make,” says Akins, who had her own daughter at 15, “and our meals got better for us and for our children.”

It was then that Akins realized she had a voice—even in challenging circumstances. She went on to use it for the benefit of herself and the students whose lives she touched as an educator and as the founder of A Better Me, a program that offers life skills—including parenting and family classes, financial classes to better understand credit, and tutoring—to young people.

Here Akins, who is an assistant principal with Miami-Dade County Public Schools, offers a few tips on how to use your voice to better the experience of others.

Be Proactive

If we are able to show young people the right way to do things, it’ll be easier for them in the future. Once they make bad choices, it’s hard for them to turn their lives around. I want to fill individuals with more positive images, more positive self-concepts, more positive ways of thinking. I know I want to leave the world a better place based on what I have seen, heard, and experienced working in inner-city schools for so long. So if I can give back, and if I can show anyone I encounter a better way to reach children, it’s going to produce better outcomes for us as a total population in the future.

Stand Up

Stand up for others who can’t stand up for themselves: Most students who are attending inner-city schools are fending for themselves. This creates a number of challenges, including mental health concerns and educational issues. For example, our kids are coming into kindergarten with no reading skills whatsoever. They need that formal preschool education or education at home. But if there’s nobody there who can take the time to show them the phonics or phonetic awareness, they’re already behind. Their success hinges on their ability to read. If you look at reading scores of children in inner-city schools, the vast majority of the students in third through fifth grade are not reading on grade level. We have to do something about that.

Empathize

When kids get in trouble, I close my door and say, “Tell me what’s going on.” I make them feel really comfortable. You’d be amazed at the things that they share with me. Sometimes if we take a moment to find out what’s going on with people, then we can relate and better understand their behavior. Then we can help each other heal, because sometimes I understand what they’re going through, because I went through it already.

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